I need some advice. So I’ve been analyzing why my love life is always so disappointing. And I realized that guys aren’t the problem, it’s how I view them. Like I realized that don’t see men as integral individuals, but as love prospects which only function is to be my potential boyfriends. Also, my first filter is whether they are good looking or not, and upon that decide if I’m interested or not. If they are I automatically turn on my hunter switch and I see them as something to obtain. If they are not handsome, I won’t be remotely interested in them, not even as a person. Why do I do this? The answer is bc I’ve struggled all my life with personal image issues, always being very insecure if I’m pretty or not, and I’m trying to seek external validation by being in a relationship with someone society deems as beautiful... No need to say that I do not like this unconscious thinking pattern and I wish to change it. It would be nice to see what you think or if there’s somebody that can relate.