Hello my bf and his mother are close a little to close for comfort. I want to know what’s normal and what isn’t? We have been together for a while and it always feels like im a third wheel... she constantly calls him at least twice a day, she constantly is in our business giving advice to him. Any time we get into a fight she knows about it. She tried to break us up in the beg of our relationship and idk what to do. If i bring up any concerns about her my bf gets defensive and never takes my side. They have a joined bank account and she knows all his financial business and I never do. Theres so much more but I just want to know what I should do.